{"id":223026,"date":"2026-03-09T22:22:12","date_gmt":"2026-03-09T20:22:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/?page_id=223026"},"modified":"2026-07-04T01:45:55","modified_gmt":"2026-07-03T22:45:55","slug":"resources","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/resources\/","title":{"rendered":"Resources"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"et_pb_section_0 et_pb_section et_section_regular et_block_section\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_row_0 et_pb_row et_block_row preset--module--divi-row--default\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column_0 et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et-last-child et_block_column et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_post_slider_0 et_pb_post_slider et_pb_bg_layout_dark et_pb_slider et_pb_slider_fullwidth_off et_pb_post_slider_image_left et_pb_slider_with_overlay et_pb_module et_block_module preset--group--divi-post-slider--divi-font--hm5q2bb--default preset--group--divi-post-slider--divi-font--h3vve90--default preset--group--divi-post-slider--divi-font--h1vi52x--default\"><div class=\"et_pb_slides\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide et_pb_slide_with_image et_pb_media_alignment_center et_pb_post_slide-25103055 et_pb_bg_layout_dark\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide_overlay_container\"><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_container clearfix\"><div class=\"et_pb_slider_container_inner\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide_image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-adult-children-featured-v1.webp\" alt=\"Illustration of a woman holding a notebook while sitting on a park bench.\" width=\"1672\" height=\"941\" title=\"\"><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_slide_description\"><h2 class=\"et_pb_slide_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/you-are-not-someone-elses-other-half\/\">You Are Not Someone Else&#8217;s Missing Half<\/a><\/h2><div class=\"et_pb_slide_content\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide_content_body\"><p>The legend says that long ago, people were whole. Then they were split in two, and each half began searching for the other. We all know the expression \u201cI&#8217;ve found my other half\u201d, don&#8217;t we?<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_button_wrapper\"><a class=\"et_pb_button et_pb_more_button\" href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/you-are-not-someone-elses-other-half\/\">Mai Mult<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_slide et_pb_slide_with_image et_pb_media_alignment_center et_pb_post_slide-25103051 et_pb_bg_layout_dark\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide_overlay_container\"><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_container clearfix\"><div class=\"et_pb_slider_container_inner\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide_image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-support-format-featured-v1.webp\" alt=\"Illustration of four empty chairs in a bright room.\" width=\"1672\" height=\"941\" title=\"\"><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_slide_description\"><h2 class=\"et_pb_slide_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/what-happens-in-a-support-group\/\">What happens at a support group?<\/a><\/h2><div class=\"et_pb_slide_content\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide_content_body\"><p>What kind of meeting is it, who can attend and what rules apply? These are questions to ask before going to a support group. You may meet people seeking support for a difficulty similar to yours, but how a meeting works depends on the group. Do not assume you will speak in front of everyone, that\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_button_wrapper\"><a class=\"et_pb_button et_pb_more_button\" href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/what-happens-in-a-support-group\/\">Mai Mult<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_slide et_pb_slide_with_image et_pb_media_alignment_center et_pb_post_slide-25103053 et_pb_bg_layout_dark\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide_overlay_container\"><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_container clearfix\"><div class=\"et_pb_slider_container_inner\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide_image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-original-vii-featured-v1.webp\" alt=\"Illustration of two adults talking from separate chairs on a veranda.\" width=\"1672\" height=\"941\" title=\"\"><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_slide_description\"><h2 class=\"et_pb_slide_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/do-not-face-a-loved-ones-addiction-alone\/\">You Do Not Have to Face Your Loved One&#8217;s Addiction Alone<\/a><\/h2><div class=\"et_pb_slide_content\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide_content_body\"><p>Alcohol, gambling, drugs or another form of addiction can affect more than the person struggling with it. Addiction can become part of the relationship, the family, the household budget, the way you communicate and the peace of everyday life.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_button_wrapper\"><a class=\"et_pb_button et_pb_more_button\" href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/do-not-face-a-loved-ones-addiction-alone\/\">Mai Mult<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_slide et_pb_slide_with_image et_pb_media_alignment_center et_pb_post_slide-25103047 et_pb_bg_layout_dark\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide_overlay_container\"><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_container clearfix\"><div class=\"et_pb_slider_container_inner\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide_image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-adult-children-featured-v1.webp\" alt=\"Illustration of a woman holding a notebook while sitting on a park bench.\" width=\"1672\" height=\"941\" title=\"\"><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_slide_description\"><h2 class=\"et_pb_slide_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/adult-children-of-parents-with-alcohol-addiction\/\">Adult children of parents with alcohol dependence: where to start if you need support<\/a><\/h2><div class=\"et_pb_slide_content\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide_content_body\"><p>If you grew up with a parent who had alcohol dependence and want support for yourself, you can begin with a question about what affects you now. You do not need to prove that your experience was difficult enough or get your parent&#8217;s permission to seek information. This article cannot determine\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_button_wrapper\"><a class=\"et_pb_button et_pb_more_button\" href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/adult-children-of-parents-with-alcohol-addiction\/\">Mai Mult<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_slide et_pb_slide_with_image et_pb_media_alignment_center et_pb_post_slide-25103041 et_pb_bg_layout_dark\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide_overlay_container\"><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_container clearfix\"><div class=\"et_pb_slider_container_inner\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide_image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-original-vii-featured-v1.webp\" alt=\"Illustration of two adults talking from separate chairs on a veranda.\" width=\"1672\" height=\"941\" title=\"\"><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_slide_description\"><h2 class=\"et_pb_slide_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/support-and-boundaries-for-families-affected-by-alcohol\/\">Families affected by alcohol: support, safety and boundaries<\/a><\/h2><div class=\"et_pb_slide_content\"><div class=\"et_pb_slide_content_body\"><p>If your life is affected by someone close to you drinking alcohol, you can seek support for yourself even if they do not acknowledge the problem or want help. Caring about someone does not give you control over their drinking. At the same time, you have your own needs, responsibilities and\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_button_wrapper\"><a class=\"et_pb_button et_pb_more_button\" href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/support-and-boundaries-for-families-affected-by-alcohol\/\">Mai Mult<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n<div class=\"et_pb_blog_0 et_pb_blog et_pb_bg_layout_light et_pb_posts et_pb_module preset--group--divi-blog--divi-font--hhdju96--default preset--group--divi-blog--divi-font--hazxa49--default preset--group--divi-blog--divi-font--hm5q2bb--default\"><div class=\"et_pb_ajax_pagination_container\"><div class=\"et_pb_blog_posts et_grid_module\"><article class=\"et_pb_post et_pb_post_id_25103055 clearfix et_pb_blog_item_0_0 post-25103055 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-codependency category-resources\"><div class=\"et_pb_image_container\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/you-are-not-someone-elses-other-half\/\" class=\"entry-featured-image-url\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-adult-children-featured-v1.webp\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\" alt=\"Illustration of a woman holding a notebook while sitting on a park bench.\" class=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-adult-children-featured-v1.webp 479w, https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-adult-children-featured-v1-768x432.webp 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width:479px) 479px, 100vw\" title=\"\"><span data-icon=\"\ue050\" class=\"et_overlay et_pb_inline_icon\"><\/span><\/a><\/div><h3 class=\"entry-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/you-are-not-someone-elses-other-half\/\">You Are Not Someone Else&#8217;s Missing Half<\/a><\/h3><p class=\"post-meta\">by <span class=\"author vcard\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/author\/congruentro\/\" title=\"Posts by Congruent\" rel=\"author\">Congruent<\/a><\/span> | <span class=\"published\">Oct 15, 2026<\/span><\/p><div class=\"post-content\"><div class=\"post-content-inner\"><p>The legend says that long ago, people were whole. Then they were split in two, and each half began searching for the other. We all know the expression \u201cI&#8217;ve found my other half\u201d, don&#8217;t we?<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/article><article class=\"et_pb_post et_pb_post_id_25103051 clearfix et_pb_blog_item_0_1 post-25103051 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-addiction category-resources\"><div class=\"et_pb_image_container\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/what-happens-in-a-support-group\/\" class=\"entry-featured-image-url\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-support-format-featured-v1.webp\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\" alt=\"Illustration of four empty chairs in a bright room.\" class=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-support-format-featured-v1.webp 479w, https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-support-format-featured-v1-768x432.webp 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width:479px) 479px, 100vw\" title=\"\"><span data-icon=\"\ue050\" class=\"et_overlay et_pb_inline_icon\"><\/span><\/a><\/div><h3 class=\"entry-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/what-happens-in-a-support-group\/\">What happens at a support group?<\/a><\/h3><p class=\"post-meta\">by <span class=\"author vcard\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/author\/congruentro\/\" title=\"Posts by Congruent\" rel=\"author\">Congruent<\/a><\/span> | <span class=\"published\">Oct 15, 2026<\/span><\/p><div class=\"post-content\"><div class=\"post-content-inner\"><p>What kind of meeting is it, who can attend and what rules apply? These are questions to ask before going to a support group. You may meet people seeking support for a difficulty similar to yours, but how a meeting works depends on the group. Do not assume you will speak in front of everyone, that\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/article><article class=\"et_pb_post et_pb_post_id_25103053 clearfix et_pb_blog_item_0_2 post-25103053 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-codependency category-congruent category-resources\"><div class=\"et_pb_image_container\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/do-not-face-a-loved-ones-addiction-alone\/\" class=\"entry-featured-image-url\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-original-vii-featured-v1.webp\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\" alt=\"Illustration of two adults talking from separate chairs on a veranda.\" class=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-original-vii-featured-v1.webp 479w, https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-original-vii-featured-v1-768x432.webp 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width:479px) 479px, 100vw\" title=\"\"><span data-icon=\"\ue050\" class=\"et_overlay et_pb_inline_icon\"><\/span><\/a><\/div><h3 class=\"entry-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/do-not-face-a-loved-ones-addiction-alone\/\">You Do Not Have to Face Your Loved One&#8217;s Addiction Alone<\/a><\/h3><p class=\"post-meta\">by <span class=\"author vcard\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/author\/congruentro\/\" title=\"Posts by Congruent\" rel=\"author\">Congruent<\/a><\/span> | <span class=\"published\">Oct 15, 2026<\/span><\/p><div class=\"post-content\"><div class=\"post-content-inner\"><p>Alcohol, gambling, drugs or another form of addiction can affect more than the person struggling with it. Addiction can become part of the relationship, the family, the household budget, the way you communicate and the peace of everyday life.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/article><article class=\"et_pb_post et_pb_post_id_25103047 clearfix et_pb_blog_item_0_3 post-25103047 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-addiction category-resources\"><div class=\"et_pb_image_container\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/adult-children-of-parents-with-alcohol-addiction\/\" class=\"entry-featured-image-url\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-adult-children-featured-v1.webp\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\" alt=\"Illustration of a woman holding a notebook while sitting on a park bench.\" class=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-adult-children-featured-v1.webp 479w, https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-adult-children-featured-v1-768x432.webp 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width:479px) 479px, 100vw\" title=\"\"><span data-icon=\"\ue050\" class=\"et_overlay et_pb_inline_icon\"><\/span><\/a><\/div><h3 class=\"entry-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/adult-children-of-parents-with-alcohol-addiction\/\">Adult children of parents with alcohol dependence: where to start if you need support<\/a><\/h3><p class=\"post-meta\">by <span class=\"author vcard\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/author\/congruentro\/\" title=\"Posts by Congruent\" rel=\"author\">Congruent<\/a><\/span> | <span class=\"published\">Oct 15, 2026<\/span><\/p><div class=\"post-content\"><div class=\"post-content-inner\"><p>If you grew up with a parent who had alcohol dependence and want support for yourself, you can begin with a question about what affects you now. You do not need to prove that your experience was difficult enough or get your parent&#8217;s permission to seek information. This article cannot determine\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/article><article class=\"et_pb_post et_pb_post_id_25103041 clearfix et_pb_blog_item_0_4 post-25103041 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-addiction category-resources\"><div class=\"et_pb_image_container\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/support-and-boundaries-for-families-affected-by-alcohol\/\" class=\"entry-featured-image-url\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-original-vii-featured-v1.webp\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\" alt=\"Illustration of two adults talking from separate chairs on a veranda.\" class=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-original-vii-featured-v1.webp 479w, https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-original-vii-featured-v1-768x432.webp 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width:479px) 479px, 100vw\" title=\"\"><span data-icon=\"\ue050\" class=\"et_overlay et_pb_inline_icon\"><\/span><\/a><\/div><h3 class=\"entry-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/support-and-boundaries-for-families-affected-by-alcohol\/\">Families affected by alcohol: support, safety and boundaries<\/a><\/h3><p class=\"post-meta\">by <span class=\"author vcard\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/author\/angelt\/\" title=\"Posts by Claudiu Tripon\" rel=\"author\">Claudiu Tripon<\/a><\/span> | <span class=\"published\">Oct 15, 2026<\/span><\/p><div class=\"post-content\"><div class=\"post-content-inner\"><p>If your life is affected by someone close to you drinking alcohol, you can seek support for yourself even if they do not acknowledge the problem or want help. Caring about someone does not give you control over their drinking. At the same time, you have your own needs, responsibilities and\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/article><article class=\"et_pb_post et_pb_post_id_25103039 clearfix et_pb_blog_item_0_5 post-25103039 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-addiction category-resources\"><div class=\"et_pb_image_container\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/alcohol-financial-work-and-legal-consequences\/\" class=\"entry-featured-image-url\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-original-vi-featured-v1.webp\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\" alt=\"Illustration of hands arranging papers on a table beside a notebook, wallet and keys.\" class=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-original-vi-featured-v1.webp 479w, https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-original-vi-featured-v1-768x432.webp 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width:479px) 479px, 100vw\" title=\"\"><span data-icon=\"\ue050\" class=\"et_overlay et_pb_inline_icon\"><\/span><\/a><\/div><h3 class=\"entry-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/alcohol-financial-work-and-legal-consequences\/\">The less visible costs of drinking alcohol<\/a><\/h3><p class=\"post-meta\">by <span class=\"author vcard\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/author\/angelt\/\" title=\"Posts by Claudiu Tripon\" rel=\"author\">Claudiu Tripon<\/a><\/span> | <span class=\"published\">Oct 15, 2026<\/span><\/p><div class=\"post-content\"><div class=\"post-content-inner\"><p>The cost of drinking can extend beyond the money paid for alcohol. Sometimes it includes lost time, postponed responsibilities, difficulties at work or expenses taken on by people close to you. The World Health Organization describes financial and work problems among the possible social\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/article><article class=\"et_pb_post et_pb_post_id_25103033 clearfix et_pb_blog_item_0_6 post-25103033 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-addiction category-resources\"><div class=\"et_pb_image_container\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/alcohol-family-and-relationships\/\" class=\"entry-featured-image-url\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-original-iii-featured-v1.webp\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\" alt=\"Illustration of two adults and a child drawing at a family table.\" class=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-original-iii-featured-v1.webp 479w, https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/10\/congruent-original-iii-featured-v1-768x432.webp 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width:479px) 479px, 100vw\" title=\"\"><span data-icon=\"\ue050\" class=\"et_overlay et_pb_inline_icon\"><\/span><\/a><\/div><h3 class=\"entry-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/alcohol-family-and-relationships\/\">When alcohol affects family and relationships<\/a><\/h3><p class=\"post-meta\">by <span class=\"author vcard\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/author\/angelt\/\" title=\"Posts by Claudiu Tripon\" rel=\"author\">Claudiu Tripon<\/a><\/span> | <span class=\"published\">Oct 15, 2026<\/span><\/p><div class=\"post-content\"><div class=\"post-content-inner\"><p>Alcohol problems can enter the lives of those close to someone through very concrete things: a tense evening, an unpaid bill, a broken promise, concern for a child. Partners, parents, siblings or friends may need support for their own experiences even if the person drinking is not ready to ask\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/article><article class=\"et_pb_post et_pb_post_id_265914 clearfix et_pb_blog_item_0_7 post-265914 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-congruent category-addiction category-codependency category-resources tag-addiction tag-alcohol-addiction tag-alcoholic-support-group tag-alcoholism tag-congruent tag-dependence tag-dependence-recovery tag-recovery\"><div class=\"et_pb_image_container\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/why-you-cant-control-other-peoples-drinking\/\" class=\"entry-featured-image-url\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/05\/de-ce-nu-poti-controla-consumul-celuilalt.jpg\" width=\"400\" height=\"250\" alt=\"De ce nu po\u021bi controla consumul celuilalt\" class=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/05\/de-ce-nu-poti-controla-consumul-celuilalt.jpg 479w, https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/05\/de-ce-nu-poti-controla-consumul-celuilalt-400x250.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width:479px) 479px, 100vw\" title=\"\"><span data-icon=\"\ue050\" class=\"et_overlay et_pb_inline_icon\"><\/span><\/a><\/div><h3 class=\"entry-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/why-you-cant-control-other-peoples-drinking\/\">Why you can&#8217;t control someone else&#8217;s drinking<\/a><\/h3><p class=\"post-meta\">by <span class=\"author vcard\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/author\/congruentro\/\" title=\"Posts by Congruent\" rel=\"author\">Congruent<\/a><\/span> | <span class=\"published\">May 22, 2026<\/span><\/p><div class=\"post-content\"><div class=\"post-content-inner\"><p>You try to prevent problems, repair the damage and control a loved one\u2019s drinking, while exhaustion builds. This article explores fear, care and the rescuer role, then considers boundaries, each person\u2019s responsibility and the possibility of beginning to care for your own life again.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/article><article class=\"et_pb_post et_pb_post_id_266224 clearfix et_pb_blog_item_0_8 post-266224 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-addiction category-codependency category-resources tag-addiction tag-alcohol-addiction tag-alcoholic-support-group tag-alcoholism tag-congruent tag-dependence tag-hope\"><div class=\"et_pb_image_container\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/addiction-codependency-a-vicious-circle\/\" class=\"entry-featured-image-url\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/05\/Dependenta\u2013codependenta-un-cerc-vicios.jpg\" width=\"400\" height=\"250\" alt=\"Dependence - codependency: a vicious circle\" class=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/05\/Dependenta\u2013codependenta-un-cerc-vicios.jpg 479w, https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/05\/Dependenta\u2013codependenta-un-cerc-vicios-400x250.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width:479px) 479px, 100vw\" title=\"\"><span data-icon=\"\ue050\" class=\"et_overlay et_pb_inline_icon\"><\/span><\/a><\/div><h3 class=\"entry-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/addiction-codependency-a-vicious-circle\/\">Dependence &#8211; codependency: a vicious circle<\/a><\/h3><p class=\"post-meta\">by <span class=\"author vcard\"><a href=\"https:\/\/congruent.ong\/en\/author\/congruentro\/\" title=\"Posts by Congruent\" rel=\"author\">Congruent<\/a><\/span> | <span class=\"published\">May 17, 2026<\/span><\/p><div class=\"post-content\"><div class=\"post-content-inner\"><p>Care and sacrifice can conceal a pattern that keeps both partners stuck. 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